Every year we deal with ups and downs. This is an individual experience for everyone. Some people had a great year, some people had an okay year and some people had a horrible year. The situation is different for everybody. This is why we need to cherish good moments while we can, be positive and chose to love ourselves and others. Truthfully if we cannot achieve self-love we will never be able to find it in another. We need to stop worrying about what others think. Sometimes it is okay to have something great happen in your life and not share it on social media. When you feel secure about yourself and your life, you will naturally post less about your romance and achievements. You will also care less about what others are posting, and you won’t let it get to you in a negative way.
Be impeccable with your word, especially when Mercury is in Retrograde. Communications is such an important thing and you always want to be mindful about your what you are saying and how you are saying it
. I am coining the year 2019, the year of recovery. We all need to recover from something, and we are all working on ourselves, trying to be the best versions of ourselves. It doesn’t have to be a big thing, but sometimes we need to recover from our pasts. Whatever hit you in 2018 might require your healing attention in 2019. We grow throughout the years, things change, relationships change. Things fall apart, but one thing is for certain, there is always going to be something new and coming. If you still haven’t found what you’re looking for, hang in there because one day it may come find you. In general, people need to embrace mindfulness. Stop planning everything. Stop always being in a rush. Make time to take time, I promise you, it will be worth it.
Aries (Mar 21-Apr 19)
Light, there will be: You might not be aware of it but you are the light for a lot of people. This has a lot to do with your ability to rise up over issues, and roll into a positive place. People like your fun, positive energy so bring it out. Don’t overwork yourself, and don’t hide behind your work. Be the leadership of light you were destine to be. Spread your good will onto others.
Love you will see: Aries is more of an action sign therefore they show love better then they speak it. Aries male is weird about commitment and could be a total mama’s boy. Aries will look for hot sex first and romance second. They don’t just say “I love you” to just anybody. It is important that Aries finds a way to express love verbally. They need to find the words.
Insight to Help You Believe: Don’t live your life like it’s a competition. You don’t always have to win. Slow down it is not a race. You shouldn’t try to fill up every hour, you should learn to just be. In the new year really embrace the moment.
Taurus (Apr 20-May 20)
Light, there will be: Taurus can be cynical, but usually they are won over by their loving spirit. This is a good time to self-focus and really figure out your life’s direction. For many of you, you’ve already got it all sorted out, though there still might be some unchecked boxes. You want to feel like you have it all, and when you are lacking something it really affects you. Don’t be lazy about the things that you want for yourself, they aren’t magically just going to appear. You have to work for them, and this is something that you can do.
Love you will see: Many of you are in happy, long-term relationships, which is great, but you need to figure out what your future steps are. Without being pushy, try to talk to your partner about the things that concern you. Taurus can aim to please and be taken advantage of. Sometimes Taurus just takes so long to make a move, but they want to be in an awesome relationship and are fully capable of staying loyal.
Insight to Help You Believe: Don’t be in denial about the things you want. Don’t deprive yourself. If you want a ring and it’s been ten years, let your partner know. Don’t people please. Don’t escape things. Deal with the elephant in the room. Don’t be hard on the ones you love, instead show your tender side. Nothing compares to the the true love of a Taurus.
Gemini (May 21-Jun 20)
Light, there will be: You can be the light. When a Gemini wants to shine brightly, they do. In fact, they sparkle. No one knows how to work the room like Gemini. They have a gift! Gemini knows when to turn the lights on, but some Gems struggle with when to turn them off. It can be hard to tell if Gemini is being sincere or not, a lot of them could win the Academy Award. Regardless, it’s really a coin toss. With Gemini, you never really know what you are going to get, but this year they will make things happen. Travel plans, work adventures, parties and events—the sky is the limit. Gemini is usually very anxious so they will plan their year with exciting things to do. Gemini almost needs a party, trip or an event to plan, look forward to and buy the best outfit for.
Love you will see: Gemini can tend to have a wandering eye. They seek out beautiful things and they are usually beautiful creatures. This does not mean that all Gems cheat, they don’t, but some certainly do, and for others it is not really something that they grow out of. Gemini is known to move on fast. They are also rarely fully single. They like flirtations and they love attention.
Gems will think about settling down or is settling down or getting rid of bad habits from the past. Gemini is amazing in love and has so much to give, but they have to be with the right person. It has to be a meeting of the minds. Love is always in your corner Gemini so try and be patient if you are still looking, it is going to happen. Some Gems will split this year only to realize there is better out there for them. Realistically, with Gemini’s duality they are known for having more than one marriage in their lives.
Insight to Help You Believe: 2018 wasn’t your most victorious year. That year is still to come, though many of you have killed it at your careers. Many of you were mixed up and sorting through some stuff, potentially emotional things that tested your ego. Don’t feel the need to hide your “messy”, everyone has problems and no one expects you to always be okay. Gemini does care about their image too much, so much so that they would be friendly to an enemy just to avoid a hater. Gemini would rather everyone think they are a bit of a big deal, and they are, Gemini just needs to work on being more emotionally available and more empathic. Again, this doesn’t apply to all Gems as some wear their heart on their sleeve and are super supportive and easy to talk to.
Cancer (Jun 21-Jul 22)
Light, there will be: You try to be in a good light and often you are, but as a highly emotional and moody sign, you can’t always display high spirits. This year, it’s important to let the light shine down on you. Get inspired. Ask yourself if what you are doing with your life is really what you want to be doing with your life. Look at patterns and signs to help you get the answers.
Love you will see: Cancer is all smiles when they are in love. Their heart beats to be heard by another. Love is in your back pocket—don’t worry, Cancer. Many Cancers have already married and met the one. This is a sign that likes to build relationships. Single Cancer needs to get out of their shell, gain some confidence and go after it. Just take chances, what do you have to lose? You’re probably a lot better looking and charming then you tell yourself you are. Trusting more people and letting people in is key. You can’t be afraid to get hurt. When you get hurt, you learn and figure out what it is that you want and what you need.
Insight to Help You Believe: Don’t ever sell yourself short. Sometimes you stand in the way of your own success and don’t even know it. Listen to yourself and be self-aware because you don’t always know how you affect others. Don’t be negative, especially about yourself. Take a moment to acknowledge all that you have done. Recognize that you’ve got gifts and crafts that others don’t—use them to your advantage, but always own up to your mistakes!
Leo (Jul 23-Aug 22)
Light, there will be: Leo is the light, and boy do they shine brightly, but sometimes they get tired of always having to be the sparkle and shine. This year really think about your life and what you should do differently. Some of you have been putting some important things off. Regardless, the light will come when Leo is genuinely feeling good about themselves. Some Leo’s have been tested too many times, and have honestly lost care for some people. Some Leo’s are in denial about the things they really want for themselves, and if they think it is out of their reach, Leo will just pretend they never wanted it in the first place.
Love you will see: When it comes to love, not fooling around or casual dating, but love, Leo is one of the pickiest signs. They know when they know. Waiting to find the one can create some doubt, but it shouldn’t. Leo is never without possibility. Leo wants great love, and will know when it’s right. Leo, if you’re in a relationship and still talking to your ex—this is a bad sign. Leo’s attention cannot be divided when they meet their true match. Never give up on love Leo because this year there will be so many possibilities for it.
Insight to Help You Believe: It’s important that this year, you ask yourself if you are truly happy. Leo doesn’t always deal with their issues. They’ll think about them, but they won’t always know what course of action to take. Leo wants others to always think they are doing great. Leo can either really shut down and speak to no one or tell everyone in the world looking for their insight. Confide in someone you trust, but make sure you talk about your feelings. It might be beneath you, but I promise you it will help.
Virgo (Aug 23-Sept 22)
Light, there will be: Many Virgo people are on the reserved side so they may not steal the light like other signs. However, Virgo does have a light within them, but some are just particular about who they choose to share their light with. Virgo doesn’t always get the credit they deserve because they don’t push for it. Virgo wants to be a big deal, but they don’t want to brag about it. The light of a Virgo is quite modest.
Love you will see: Virgo rarely ever rushes in so if you’re waiting for a ring, don’t expect to plan when it comes. Virgo is the loner sign of the zodiac, they need alone time, and could only ever be with a very specific person who is practically tailored for that Virgo. Earth signs like Virgo are relationship signs, but out of all the earth signs, Virgo is the most difficult to settle down.
Insight to Help You Believe: Be with someone who makes you the best version of yourself. With love, work on being warm natured oppose to cold and introverted. No one can make you do anything you don’t want to, but sometimes it’s good to take a chance. You’ll know a Virgo really loves you when they break one of their old stubborn habits.
Libra (Sept 23-Oct 22)
Light, there will be: Libra has a lot of light and a lot of people will be attracted to this light. Libra tries to keep things easy, and a lot of people like that they are no drama. This year, get in touch with your inner light. Let it guide you towards all the things you’ve been putting off.
Love you will see: True love will never come here unless the Libra learns to love and accept themselves without indecision. Don’t string people along if you don’t feel the same way. Don’t carry on with someone just because you like the attention. You’ll make for an excellent partner just as soon as your mind is made up. Libra is a romantic. Embrace the side of yourself this year.
Insight to Help You Believe: Sometimes it feels like you take one step forward and three steps back, and sometimes that is the case, but it’s time to really master what you’ve been avoiding. There’s never going to be a perfect time, there is only now, so act on it because you really are worth it. If you feel yourself floating up to high be careful, Libra needs to use good judgment and common sense.
Scorpio (Oct 23-Nov 21)
Light, there will be: It’s weird that not everyone knows about your light, but then again you don’t share it with just anyone. You are often the light at the end of the tunnel for loved ones in need. You will have no problems taking care of your people, but this year you really have to make time for you.
Love you will see: Sometimes it is hard for a Scorpio because they are so emotional but don’t know how to show it. Some Scorpios reject their need for romantic love, and others are freaked out by it, but at the end of the day, no mater what complex you are suffering from, you want love, and you will find it, but you can’t hide away or hide behind others, you need to be present.
Insight to Help You Believe: It’s okay to not always be in control. No one is going to judge you, if anything they will respect you more. Learning to find your words is huge here because when it comes to others you might have a mouthful, but when it comes to yourself, you might not have a clue.
Sagittarius (Nov 22-Dec 21)
Light, there will be: A true Sagittarius is a blast in a glass. They will rush to the light in any situation. Sagittarius sees the facts, but they would rather see the bright side. They’d rather believe that everything is going to be okay. Known for their optimism, Sagittarius came to win, and often does. Sagittarius makes for an excellent CEO.
Love you will see: When trust is broken or you are given a reason to feel doubt—it can shake your core, but just remember that you will end up with one person and that person needs to be the right person. Sagittarius really values trust in a relationship, especially because many are not open books. Sagittarius has a private side, which is why their partner has to be the one they open up to and trust. Single Sagittarius will shoot their arrow when they see their target, they have no shame in playing the field, dating around and seeing what’s out there.
Insight to Help You Believe: Nothing is ever going to be perfect so you might have to lower your expectations. In an ideal Sagittarius world everything and everyone would be perfection, but Sagittarius knows that is not the case. Don’t point out other people’s flaws. Let them figure it out for themselves. Work on loving and accepting people for just the way that they are.
Capricorn (Dec 22-Jan 19)
Light, there will be: You are a working ray of light! In the light is where you need to be and this year that’s exactly where you will reside. Hard work pays off so this just might be your time to shine. You are a very helpful person, and will continue to shed your helpful light in 2019.
Love you will see: Capricorn love is boss love. It means business. Capricorn is in it to last forever. They will be the ultimate ride or die and partner. Capricorn wants to fall in love, but first they have to be able to admit that they deserve love and good things. Capricorn can sometimes tolerate negative aspects in a relationship for too long. Capricorn takes their commitments very seriously. This year Capricorns will tie the knot, have children, and many romantic experiences.
Insight to Help You Believe: You are good enough. Say it out loud. You are worthy. Know this. Not all Capricorns are hard on themselves, just some. There are plenty, confident boss types in this sign. Don’t take on more than you can chew, and don’t be scared to admit if you have taken on too much. This realization does not make you weak, it makes you human.
Aquarius (Jan 20-Feb 18)
Light, there will be: Aquarius is built with a lot of light, and boy do they shine. Aquarius is bright and shines brightly. They know how to make things interesting, as they are rarely ever dull. Aquarius is drawn towards the light. Achieving big things at the office, traveling the world, and going on adventures—Aquarius wants to be apart of it all.
Love you will see: Aquarius is a thinker, and therefore thinks about love before they feel it. They want to meet a partner, but it can take them longer as it is better they get to know or become friends with the person first. In love, Aquarius is amazing, but Aquarius will always need time for other things. Aquarius isn’t the type to feel complete by love. There is so much they want to do. This year, I predict proposals and newborns.
Insight to Help You Believe: Sometimes we meet people who change our core beliefs. Love can do that for the Aquarius who will open their mind to something they once felt differently about. Aquarius is getting inspired in 2019, a lot of of good things are coming your way, but you’ve waited for them and worked for them. If you find you are still stuck doing the same thing, try something new. This could be good for you, especially in regards to career, a little exploration never hurt. Regardless, you are so talented just ensure that those talents are being put to the right use.
Pisces (Feb 19-March 20)
Light, there will be: If you’re a true Pisces, you are probably the light in a lot of people’s lives. Pisces is vivacious. They have an endearing quality about them that others can relate to and open up to. The problem is that sometimes Pisces goes dim. They get down on themselves and life. This is why Pisces is always swimming towards the light. They want to be inspired, but more importantly, they want to know what’s to come, and the uncertainty of the future drives them to an emotional place.
Love you will see: 2018 was suppose to be a good love year for the Pisces. I predict 2019 will be of the same. Pisces has learned a lot. They have come a long way, they have grown. There are still those Pisces who tolerate abuse and nonsense. If you catch yourself falling into similar patters, it’s probably not going to work out. You know that you want that crew love. You know you need to be told nice things about yourself. You know you want to date someone who can stand on their own two feet. Stop telling yourself what you need to get by. Sadly, time won’t freeze for your ignorance. Don’t worry Pisces you know you’re kind of attracted to assholes and you’re working on it, but you can’t change anyone who doesn’t want to, and you can’t sit back daydreaming, praying on a miracle.
Insight to Help You Believe: A lot of you are growing into your own skin and loving it. A lot of you are accepting that it’s okay to say goodbye to people. A lot of you are growing more confident, which is exactly what the fish needs. You are a dreamer and you should pursue your dreams. Don’t be lazy. Do whatever you have to in order to make your dreams a reality.